The Phone Call . . . June 2011

Well, after waiting for what seemed like forever but was really only 6 days, our social worker was finally able to talk to Janice's social worker.  We were soooo ready for that phone call and yet realized that the information we received would really determine if we should move forward.  At that point, we felt like God was leading us onward, but needed to know a few more details.  One of the big details for me was that I really wanted her to be a "young 11."  There was a big difference between a young 11 year old and one that was almost 12, especially when thinking about if she would enjoy playing with Ashley, not to mention the hormonal and emotional changes happening in a girl that age.  I had just that week said to Scott, "If she were only a 10 year old, that would be so great!"

He called us on Wednesday, June 8th with more information.  I listened intently to every word and asked questions along the way.  My heart was beating out of my chest.  I felt a sense of peace, yet huge excitement, as well as some fear.  His first words to me were:  "Well, she's actually 10!"  I was ecstatic!  She would turn 11 in two days on June 10th :)!  It felt like a huge confirmation to me, but I continued to listen.  We found out she was born on an island called Saipan that is a U.S. territory.  He told us the reasons for her being taken out of the home, how many placements she had, that she had one younger sibling that was already being adopted, as well as some of the problems the foster families have had with her.  He also told us where she was currently living, and it happened to be one of my husband's favorite places (yes, there is a P.F. Chang's in the area)!  That was another fun confirmation for us!  We also found out she enjoyed swimming, which was a plus for Ashley since if allowed, she would be in a pool most of the day everyday.  I began writing everything down as our social worker talked so I could relay all of the information to Scott.  I talked with him after the phone call, and both of us were comfortable with the information we heard.  We spent the evening discussing and praying, and decided we would call the next day (first thing) to move forward!  The peace God had given us was turning to excitement for sure!